Using Surface Level Growth Work to Avoid the Deeper Level Work
…I’m not talking about don’t expand. I’m up for growth. I’m up for expansion. Our souls delight in by both growth and expansion… what I’m talking about is don’t wait until then.. until you actually love all of who you are.
Please… I have a huge request. When you hear this message, please hear it on a cellular level… like get it… take it into your bones… into yourselves because this is, I think one of the biggest messages we can actually get.
So many of us are living our life where we are feeling like we have to be someone else… we have to change because then we finally accept who we are. Now, I’m not talking about don’t grow… I’m not talking about don’t expand. I’m up for growth. I’m up for expansion. Our souls delight in by both growth and expansion… what I’m talking about is don’t wait until then.. until you actually love all of who you are.
We are often living this space where we are rejecting… where we are disowning… where we’re not okay with parts of ourselves whether it’s on a physical body when we say that… I need to change this to be okay with me… or whether it’s on an emotional level and these parts of their emotions that we cannot be with you know… I’m not okay with myself when I’m angry… I’m only okay with myself when I’m happy or being feeling alone is a part of me that I just… you know… can’t be with… or whether it’s on a part of our life like the level of actually how life is showing up that we’re resisting and we’re making wrong and… it’s like these lessons that are showing up for us is like… I don’t want that to be here… I can’t be with that…
This invitation is an invitation to really look at what are the parts of you that you’re rejecting… disowning… suppressing… avoiding… and can’t be with and actually go… You know what… I’ll own and I love all of who I am… and I’m gonna be a stand for self-love and here’s what love is… love is unconditional… what that means is without condition. When you say… ‘Yeah.. I love me except for that bed… I’m happy for who I am except for that part of me… There is conditional love which isn’t love.
We’re called into a way higher level of love. If you have children… if you look at your child and you love them unconditionally… See my son, this time times when he is just so loving towards me and I just feel his gooey in his love and then there’s time where he looks at me and goes… ‘Mom, I hate you. You’re the worst mom in the world…’ In those moments, I love him just as much as when he’s telling me that he loves me. There’s no difference in my love because my love for him, it’s unconditional. My love for my son does not come with conditions. What if we have that love for ourselves… that regardless of how we show up… regardless of what is showing up in our physical or emotional or mental… or whatever form in our life that we are just going to unconditionally love and own all of who we are… See, that is the level of love that we are called for… that is the level of love that I am inviting you into.
If there’s a part of you that you’re resisting… that is the place to go to do the work. The thing that we most can’t be with… that is gonna give us our biggest breakthrough. It is easy to do growth in the spaces that we’re comfortable with… It’s easy to do have personal development in the spaces that are easy… but I’m inviting you to go to the parts of you that you can’t be with and to show up there with self-love.
If you want an access point in support to do that, head over to TheExpansionProcess.com. This is a FREE Video Training on how to that. But the fact is… first of all… you gotta know that you want to… you gotta commit to it and you actually really get the freedom that’s on the other side of that.