Inside of your relationship, how often do you take the space to really re-create….

Re-creating who you are to each other
Re-creating how you see each other
Re-creating the purpose and intention of your relationship

How often do you actually take time out to complete and close off chapters of the past that you’ve been through together, acknowledging what that period of your lives was for you both
(warts and all), and calling that part of what you went through now ‘complete’. This is soooo valuable because it cleans the slate for you to both really CHOOSE your next phase together.

What do you NOW want to step into together? What do you both want to call in?
How do you both want to know yourselves and each other?
What are you both excited for in this new phase?

Relationships aren't meant to be done, eyes closed.
Unconsciously going through life smacking into each other.

There is so much more possible
inside of relationships


Henare and I get so pretty damn passionate about the topic of relationships
because we know what’s possible when two people are truly committed to having an epic one

We’ve been together for almost fifteen years
and have been through so many phases of our relationship.

In the early years we’d both brought so much of our own baggage
through that we were smacking up against each other over 'n over,
and couldn't see a way out. To say that it was frustrating, was an understatement.

But, we did the work
We BOTH showed up

We now have an extraordinary marriage. I'm about to make a big claim.
Here it is… we both haven't seen a relationship like ours out there.
With the depth of freedom, care, friendship, communication, mutual support
and ability to clean up and recreate over and over and over.

Here’s some of the key areas that we’ve developed relationship mastery in:

Extraordinary full communication

Everything gets talked through. And I do mean… everything. We say what most people won’t. And will go into conversation together, where most people will avoid. Because of that, we have a clean relationship, where things get to be created and manifested fast together

Clearing out

We’ve become masterful at clearing out blocks within our relationship. Sorting through old patterns that’ve kept us stuck, and moving through them, completing them, and re-creating something new together


We’ve learnt how to keep recreating together. Recreating how we see each other. Recreating what it is that we’re up to and committed to. The art of recreation has allowed us to keep moving our lives into new spaces and not be held back by how we’ve known each other in the past. This is everything. If you really want results in your life, you need to have the relationship on board with powerfully supporting the creation of those results.


There is complete freedom in our relationship for either of us to choose whatever we choose. That's a pretty epic experience, and something that is hard to even describe the ripple effects that it creates in other areas of your life that you wouldn’t expect.

About the Facilitators

Henare and Kate O'Brien

We're a husband and wife duo from New Zealand, who together hold over 20 years experience in personal development training to a high level. Combining years of study in ontology, spirituality, human behaviour, NLP and more. We are both NLP Master Practitioners with Kate also being an NLP Trainer.

We've personally studied with and under the Masters and pioneers of their respected fields. Our unique teaching processes have evolved over the past decade drawing from a range of modalities including ontology, spirituality & neuroscience and the training we facilitate is deep, and ‘no holds barred’. We go anywhere that’s required to support people to crack past the resistance that’s been blocking them and step into the truth of who they already are. When we say anything, we really do mean ANYTHING. From martial arts to primal screaming, ontological training to dancing.. We go wherever is required.

We facilitate 2 - 5 days workshops with groups of up to 200 people.Our advanced leadership trainings have people causing transformational results in every area of their lives, in particular transforming their finances, relationships with loved ones, and relationship to themselves.

We've become known as Australasia's Leading Transformational Leadership Couple, created one of the world's leading personal development summits, and are globally known for the deep shift coaching & training we provide.

Your content here...


10 - 14 December 2018


Bali, Indonesia


This is a small and very private relationship retreat where we’re ONLY taking 4 couples through

What's included:
  • Ticket for you and your partner to the Relationship Recreation Retreat here in Bali which is 5 days / 4 nights of reconnection and recreation.
  • Daily Coaching and Training Sessions with Kate and Henare O’Brien
  • 4 nights of beautiful accommodation for you and your partner. We’ll be all living together in a huge, stunning, luxury Villa in Bali, and you and your partner will have a beautiful room all to yourselves.
  • All meals for the duration of the RR Retreat. Yummy and healthy meals every day
  • All activities are included. We’ve got some awesome things planned for you! And it's ALL included

Please note, this is the ONLY Relationship Retreat that we have planned, and we have no intention of running another one.

So… if you feel called to be there, my suggestion is to do what it takes to get there! Play a game and make it happen. It's quite extraordinary what happens, when we move from “I cant” to “how could I have it happen”... options open up. There’s always away.. IF you choose it

This will be an absolute experience for your relationship together. It will be an opportunity for you to both dive deep into your own growth as well as re-connect to the soul of your relationship…

….while having fun!!!

We know how to bring the fun!!
Why? Cause relationship sparkle needs fun.
And we’ll definitely be having that, in bucketloads!

If you want to reconnect with your partner in ways that you’ve never done before
To refuel the tank of your relationship
To reconnect to the soul of your relationship
And strengthen the foundation of who you are together..
While having 5 days of fun and (shall I say it).. some adventures…!!

… then act quick because we’re only taking 4 couples
and this will be snapped up fast

We’ve been together for almost fifteen years
and have been through so many phases of our relationship.